Why do we worry when we face loss. either a game or a argument or even business.
Why does loss make you sad. you feel you are beneath the world.. Why Why Why??
little wiser little deeper if we analyze, losing to one's own family members would not hurt much. never you are saddened by a game loss to your brother as you would to your friend at school..
Loss should be a stepping stone and not the end of world. Lot of lives have been lost due to unability to handle loss.
Loss or Victory should be handled the same way as the famous tennis star Chris Evert said..
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Friday, July 8, 2011
Help
Help
What do we mean by help? Day in Day out we always speak about helping others.Do we actually know what HELP means. What is that instinct that tells you to help? How many of us help.. Let's dwell little deep into it and think. We help others everywhere at work, friends and many more. But back in the mind there is an alert process which is running, which is constantly warning you that Help this guy, he will help you when u r in need. Yes that is exactly what we mean by help. There is SELFISHNESS behind every HELP we do. Very rarely you go to a stranger for help or lend help to a stranger.. This is very rare and that's what the problem is. This alert builds the EGO as to "I did help him in Need" and that develops as EGO and also pin points it to the same person when He/she doesnt help you. May be they were not in a position to help you. Even then "NO" can’t be taken as answer and the Alert now warns you to have a Grudge on the same person and that turns on revenge. So what was this all about. It’s all about Expectation and not help.
Help is Selfless. What Mother Teresa did was Helping others.. or Serving others and that doesn’t have any Expectation and that’s very noble .
What do we mean by help? Day in Day out we always speak about helping others.Do we actually know what HELP means. What is that instinct that tells you to help? How many of us help.. Let's dwell little deep into it and think. We help others everywhere at work, friends and many more. But back in the mind there is an alert process which is running, which is constantly warning you that Help this guy, he will help you when u r in need. Yes that is exactly what we mean by help. There is SELFISHNESS behind every HELP we do. Very rarely you go to a stranger for help or lend help to a stranger.. This is very rare and that's what the problem is. This alert builds the EGO as to "I did help him in Need" and that develops as EGO and also pin points it to the same person when He/she doesnt help you. May be they were not in a position to help you. Even then "NO" can’t be taken as answer and the Alert now warns you to have a Grudge on the same person and that turns on revenge. So what was this all about. It’s all about Expectation and not help.
Help is Selfless. What Mother Teresa did was Helping others.. or Serving others and that doesn’t have any Expectation and that’s very noble .
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